Quote from Forum Archives on December 9, 2005, 11:35 am

Posted by: bigguyhereagain <bigguyhereagain@...>

"10 WAYS TO SHARE THE JOY DURING THE CHRISTMAS HOLIDAYS"

 

 

1. Mend a broken relationship with a friend
or relative during the holidays.

 

2. Every night of the Christmas season, before going to bed,
ask yourself, "Whose life did I make brighter today?"

 

3. Offer to run holiday errands for an elderly friend or relative.

 

4. Tip someone who doesn't expect it.

 

5. Set aside time at the beginning of the holiday season to help
your children plan their gift-giving lists.

 

6. Open holiday cards as a family activity each night at the
dinner table and read the messages aloud.

 

7. This year, write letters to several people who have had a
positive influence on your life and thank them for the gift
they have given you.

 

8. Take decorated wreaths, dreidels or other festive symbols
to someone in a hospital or nursing home.

 

9. Secretly shovel the snow off of your neighbor's front walk.

 

10. If you have friends who have lost family members since
last year, make a special effort to call and cheer them during the holidays.

 

And remember don't try to do everything yourself even Santa needs helpers.
Author Unknown

 

 

"THE SANDS OF CHRISTMAS"

 

 

I had no Christmas spirit when I breathed a weary sigh,
And looked across the table where the bills were piled too high.

 

The laundry wasn't finished and the car I had to fix,
My stocks were down another point, the Chargers lost by six.

 

And so with only minutes till my son got home from school
I gave up on the drudgery and grabbed a wooden stool.
The burdens that I carried were about all I could take,
And so I flipped the TV on to catch a little break.

 

I came upon a desert scene in shades of tan and rust,
No snowflakes hung upon the wind, just clouds of swirling dust.

 

And where the reindeer should have stood before a laden sleigh,
Eight Humvees ran a column right behind an M1A.

 

A group of boys walked past the tank, not one was past his teens
Their eyes were hard as polished flint, their faces drawn and lean.

 

They walked the street in armor with their rifles shouldered tight,
Their dearest wish for Christmas, just to have a silent night.

 

Other soldiers gathered, hunkered down against the wind,
To share a scrap of mail and dreams of going home again .
There wasn't much at all to put their lonely hearts at ease,
They had no Christmas turkey, just a pack of MREs.

 

They didn't have a garland or a stocking I could see,
They didn't need an ornament--they lacked a Christmas tree.

 

They didn't have a present even though it was tradition,
The only boxes I could see were labeled "ammunition."

 

I felt a little tug and found my son now by my side,
He asked me what it was I feared, and why it was I cried.
I swept him up into my arms and held him oh so near And kissed him on
the forehead as I whispered in his ear.

 

"There's nothing wrong, my little son, for safe we sleep tonight
Our heroes stand on foreign land to give us all the right,

 

To worry on the things in life that mean nothing at all,
Instead of wondering if we will be the next to fall."

 

He looked at me as children do and said, "It's always right,
To thank the ones who help us and perhaps that we should write."

 

And so we pushed aside the bills and sat to draft a note,
To thank the many far from home and this is what we wrote:

 

"God bless you all and keep you safe and speed your way back home.
Remember that we love you so, and that you're not alone.

 

The gift you give you share with all, a present every day,
You give the gift of liberty and that we can't repay."

 

Michael Marks:  "I freely submit this poem for reprint without
reservation--this is an open and grateful tribute to the men and
women who  serve every day to keep our nation safe.
Michael Marks

 

 

"A Different Kind of Christmas Poem"

 

               

The embers glowed softly, and in their dim light,
I gazed round the room and I cherished the sight.
My wife was asleep, her head on my chest,
My daughter beside me, angelic in rest.

 

Outside the snow fell, a blanket of white,
transforming the yard to a winter delight.
The sparkling lights in the tree I believe,
completed the magic that was Christmas Eve.

 

My eyelids were heav y, my breathing was deep,
Secure and surrounded by love I would sleep.
In perfect contentment, or so it would seem,
So I slumbered, perhaps I started to dream.

 

The sound wasn't loud, and it wasn't too near,
But I opened my eyes when it tickled my ear.
Perhaps just a cough, I didn't quite know,
Then the sure sound of footsteps outside in the snow.

 

My soul gave a tremble, I struggled to hear,
And I crept to the door just to see who was near.
Standing out in the cold and the dark of the night,
a lone figure stood, his face weary and tight.

 

A soldier, I puzzled, some twenty years old,
Perhaps a Marine, huddled here in the cold.
Alone in the dark, he looked up and smiled,
standing watch over me, and my wife and my child.

 

"What are you doing?" I asked without fear,
"Come in this moment, it's freezing out here!
Put down your pack, brush the snow from your sleeve,
You should be at home on a cold Christma s Eve!"

 

For barely a moment I saw his eyes shift,
Away from the cold and the snow blown in drifts..
To the window that danced with a warm fire's light.
Then he sighed and he said "Its really all right,
I'm out here by choice. I'm here every night."

 

"It's my duty to stand at the front of the line,
That separates you from the darkest of times.
No one had to ask or beg or implore me,
I'm proud to stand here like my fathers before me.

 

My Gramps died at 'Pearl on a day in December,"
Then he sighed, "That's a Christmas 'Gram always remembers."
My dad stood his watch in the jungles of 'Nam',
And now it is my turn and so, here I am.

 

I've not seen my own son in more than a while,
But my wife sends me pictures, he's sure got her smile.
Then he bent and he carefully pulled from his bag,
The red, white, and blue... an American flag.

 

"I can live through the cold and the being alone,
Away from my family, my house and my home.
I can stand at my post through the rain and the sleet,
I can sleep in a foxhole with little to eat.

 

I can carry the weight of killing another,
Or lay down my life with my sister and brother..
Who stand at the front against any and all,
To ensure for all time that this flag will not fall."

 

"So go back inside," he said, "harbor no fright,
Your family is waiting and I'll be all right."

 

"But isn't there something I can do, at the least,
Give you money," I asked, "or prepare you a feast?
It seems all too little for all that you've done,
For being away from your wife and your son."

 

Then his eye welled a tear that held no regret,
"Just tell us you love us, and never forget.
To fight for our rights back at home while we're gone,
To stand your own watch, no matter how long.

 

For when we come home, either standing or dead,
To know you remember we fought and we bled.
Is payment enough , and with that we will trust,
That we mattered to you as you mattered to us.

 

 

Have a Blessed Day
Dave and Barbara

 

 

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