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BBD 07.21.04 When Blessings Don't Act Like Blessings - Part 2

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07.21.04

When Blessings Don’t Act Like Blessings - Part 2

An excellent wife (Literally: A wife of valor) is the crown of her
husband…. - Proverbs 12:4a.

House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent (other
translations: sensible, understanding) wife is from the LORD. - Proverbs
19:14.

Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart
of her husband safely trusts her; so he will have no lack of gain. She does
him good and not evil all the days of her life. - Proverbs 31:10-12.

For eleven years, Margaret Thatcher was one of the most powerful persons on
earth. Perhaps it was the war over the Falkland Islands in which she gained
the nickname of “The Iron Lady”. Her determination to regain the Falklands
whatever the cost was courageous leadership and the result of her “iron”
will.

I have been blessed to have an excellent wife, a wife of valor, a prudent,
sensible, understanding, virtuous, and trustworthy wife. Jeanie is all of
those things and more. She also has been an instrument of God in my life to
shape and mold me. She is a descendant of Roger Williams (Her nine
great-grandfather) who among many other things: founded the first Baptist
Church in America; obtained a royal charter for Rhode Island in 1644; and
was a champion of religious freedom. I have come to believe that Jeanie was
divinely designed to intervene in my life because (at least in part) of
prayers from the past. When I think of the character of my wife, I think of
the verse in Proverbs, which says, “As iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens
the countenance of his friend (Proverbs 27:17).”

My wife has been at times an “iron lady” when it comes to what is right and
what is wrong. I know that she is a blessing from God but at times, I have
not enjoyed running into an iron wall. God has used her to direct me
unerringly in the direction of His will. He has used her to turn me away
from sin and back to Him as often as has been needed. At times I did not
feel that she was a blessing but instead an unbending “iron lady”. Looking
back at my life, I know that God gave me a wonderful blessing when He gave
me Jeanie as my wife. Without her testimony, I might never have come to know
the Lord as my personal Savior. Without her, I would never have begun
attending church on a regular, faithful basis. Without her, I would not be
preaching today and instead may have destroyed my life and the lives of
others.

In our marriages, there will be times when the best of wives and the best of
husbands may not appear to be blessings. That doesn’t mean that they aren’t!
In the moments when they least appear to be a blessing from God they may be
doing the most important divinely inspired work that they will ever do (This
will never be anything sinful.). If you are unhappy with your marriage, I
would encourage you to take a fresh look at your wife or your husband. It
may be that you are both made of supernatural iron that God is using to
shape your lives. If your husband is on the wrong path, God would use you as
a divine instrument to change his path. If your wife is on the wrong path,
God would use you as a divine instrument to change her path. Sometimes
blessings don’t appear to be acting like blessings. When that happens it may
be that you need to take another look through the eyes of God and praise Him
for what you see!

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