Constructive and Destructive Approaches to Conflict: Raises & clarifies issues vs. Brings up old issues. Expresses both positive & negative feelings vs. Expresses only negative feelings. Complete and honest information vs. Selective information. Conflict focuses on issue vs. Conflict focuses on person. Accepts mutual blame vs. Blames other person(s) for problem. Focuses on similarities vs. Focuses on differences. Facilitates change to prevent stagnation vs. Minimizes change, increasing conflict. Both win vs. One wins, one loses; or both lose Resolving conflict increases intimacy vs. Escalating conflict decreases intimacy.

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CATEGORY	CUISINE	TAG	YIELD
Dairy, Grains	Vegetarian	Beverage	1	Servings

INGREDIENTS

4	c	(950 ml) plain yogurt or cultured buttermilk
3	c	(700 ml) ice water
6	tb	Sugar -or-
5	tb	Honey
2	ts	Rose-water
1/4	ts	Ground cardamom seeds
		Crushed ice (optional)

INSTRUCTIONS

Taken from "The Hare Krishna Book of Vegetarian Cooking" by Adiraja dasa,
Mithi Lassi (Sweet yogurt or buttermilk drink).
For best results, dissolve the sweetener in a small quantity of hot water
before mixing it with the other ingredients.
Mix all the ingredients together with a whisk or an electric blender until
the surface of the lassi becomes frothy.  Serve chilled, either by adding
crushed ice or by refrigeration.
As an alternative to rose-water and cardamom, try 3 tablespoons of lime or
lemon juice, 3 tablespoons of flavored syrup, or 1/2 cup (50 g) of crushed
red berries, ripe banana, or ripe mango.
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(DAN HIRSCHI)
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