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God: "I looked for someone to take a stand for me, and stand in the gap" (Ezekiel 22:30)

The Intermediate State refers to that period and/or experience of the individual between the time of physical death and bodily resurrection.
Sam Storms

The rod is not a matter of an angry parent venting his wrath upon a small helpless child. The rod is a faithful parent, recognizing his child’s dangerous state, employing a God-given remedy. The issue is not a parental insistence on being obeyed. The issue is the child’s need to be rescued from death (Proverbs 23:14) – the death that results from rebellion left unchallenged in the heart.
Tedd Tripp