Weeping At The grave Of A Loved
65 Fm: PHC 24-322 Mamie Vining 10-17-84 WEEPING AT THE GRAVE OF A LOVED ONE John 11:32-36
INTRODUCTION
- Grief is normal: Tennyson wrote, “Oh for the touch of a vanished hand. For the sound of a voice that is still!”
- Jesus did not rebuke the grief-striken loved ones left behind (only “that you sorrow not…as others which have no hope.” 1 Thes. 4:13)
- Tears help us deal with our loss: Hunt has said, “Tears hinder sorrow from becoming despair”
- Let us look at Jesus weeping at the grave:
- THE HUMANITY OF JESUS CAUSED TEARS (He’s all God but ALL MAN also)
- Heb. 2:14, “Forasmuch then as the children are partakers of flesh and blood he also himself likewise took part of the same
- The part of Jesus that would say, “Not my will but thine be done” knew that death was the means to real life but,
- The part of Jesus that would say, “If there be any other way let this cup pass from me” felt the pain of separation.
- The thought of death being so powerful as to break up homes, families & friendships and leave only scraps of life was sad
- The MAN Jesus knows very well the hurt that you are feeling
II. SYMPATHY FOR HIS FRIENDS BROUGHT TEARS TO JESUS’ EYES
- Mary and Martha felt disappointment that Jesus waited so long
- And seeing the grief of Lazarus’ sisters brought sorrow to him
- Heb. 4:15, “For we have not a high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin.”
- Is. 53:3, “He is…a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief”
- He can now EMPATHIZE with us: To paraphrase Is. 63:9, “In
all our afflictions he is afflicted, and the angel of His presence saves us: in his love and in his pity he redeems us; and he bares us, and carries us all the days”
III. DIVINE LOVE AND COMFORT TO MAN COMES FROM THOSE TEARS
- Divine sympathy and Divine empathy lead to divine help
- Is. 53:4, the Man Acquainted with Grief has “born our grief” and the Man of Sorrows has “carried our sorrows”
- The reason for His taking on human flesh was “that through death he might destroy him that had the power of death, that is, the devil; And deliver them who through fear of death were all their lifetime subject to bondage” (Heb. 2:14,15)
- Death may win today but resurrections come in the morning:
- Jn. 11:25, “I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live”
- Robert Ingersoll asked why He said, “LAZARUS, come forth”
- The widow of Nain felt as you do until Jesus spoke to her, “Weep not” and touched the casket and gave her son life.
- He can do much more as well: Rev. 21:4, “God shall wipe away
all tears from their eyes”
SUMMARY
- Jesus KNOWS the pain and grief that you feel
- He FEELS that pain with you (borne our griefs)
- He will HELP
- Promises that the resurrection will bring us together
- He will go with us through dark death (yea, though I walk)
- He will wipe away all tears from our eyes