Discern commonality of spirits. 1. Is this person spiritually regenerated (John 3:1-6)? 2. Take time to observe their values and attitudes (Matt. 7:16). 3. Will they pray with you? Study Scripture? Attend church? 4. Seek counsel of pastor or spiritual leader. Determine correlation of minds. 1. Are there common interests? 2. Do you share “the mind which is in Christ Jesus” (Phil. 2:5)? 3. Is there common desire to “renew the mind” (Rom. 12:2; Eph. 4:23)? Discover concerns of emotions. 1. Don’t start with “feelings;” these should be by-product. 2. Are your affections directed toward the highest well-being of the other person? 3. Do you detect anger, fear, jealousy, pride, etc.? Develop commitments of wills. 1. Are there common objectives and priorities? 2. Discuss short-range and long-range goals. Career choices. 3. Is there a mutual decision to follow God’s leading together? Desire companionship of bodily presence. 1. Desire to share recreation, entertainment, social occasions in each other’s company. 2. Communication; communication; communication! 3. Premarital sexual relationships are contrary to God’s intent (1 Cor. 6:12-20).

James Fowler

CATEGORY	CUISINE	TAG	YIELD
Dairy, Eggs			1	Servings

INGREDIENTS

1	pk	Lemon Cake Mix
1/2	c	Margerine or butter; softened
2/3		Cut milk
2		Eggs
1	cn	(16 oz) blueberries drained

INSTRUCTIONS

Heat oven to 350oF Grease and flour 13x9 inch pan. In large bowl, combine
cake mix and margerine until crumbly. Reserve 1 1/4 cups crums for topping.
To remaining crums, add milk and eggs; beat 2 minutes at highest speed.
Pour into prepared pan. Arrange blueberries evenly over batter. Sprinkle
with reserved crums.
Bake at 350oF for 35 to 45 minutes or until toothpick inserted in center
comes out clean. Cool completely. If desiered, serve with whipped cream.
Refrigerate leftovers. 12 servings.
Posted to recipelu-digest by POLKA29438@aol.com on Feb 15, 1998

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