CATEGORY	CUISINE	TAG	YIELD
Eggs, Dairy			1	Servings

INGREDIENTS

3/4	c	Sugar
3		Eggs
3		Egg yolk
14	oz	Condensed milk, sweetened
1 1/2	ts	Vanilla
2	oz	Cream cheese
14	oz	Milk

INSTRUCTIONS

Carmelize the sugar in frying pan until a nice golden brown. While doing
this..... mix very throughly the rest of the ingredients. Pour the
carmelized sugar into a 10" pyrex pie plate....it will harden Then pour the
mixed ingredients over the hardened carmelized sugar. Place in a bain marie
with 1 1/2" of water and bake for 70 minutes at 350F
Notes:  The CottonWood Cafe serves this flan (almost cheesecake) with thin
twisted slices of limes.
Per serving: 334 Calories; 12g Fat (32% calories from fat); 9g Protein; 49g
Carbohydrate; 179mg Cholesterol; 131mg Sodium
Posted to FOODWINE Digest 25 October 96
Date:    Fri, 25 Oct 1996 21:20:45 +0100
From:    terry pogue <tpogue@IDS2.IDSONLINE.COM>

A Message from our Provider:

“Your life will have a purpose with the Saviour.”

Every counselor knows that the way to put people together is not by taking them apart. Separation heats up desire that it shouldn’t, but cools concern that it ought not. The cooling that often occurs is due to a sense of relief from the previous problems, a false sense of peace that is interpreted (wrongly) as a solution to the problem. Nothing actually has been solved. But because of this temporary relief, it is very difficult to effect reconciliation. Often one (or both) of the parties says “I never had it so good” and is loathe to rock the boat. That peace will leave in time, but for some time can be so great a deterrent to reconciliation that it can destroy the prospects altogether. Separation is another means of running from problems instead of solving them God’s way. The first thing a Christian counselor must do, when dealing with separated persons, is to bring them back together again (at this point their great reluctance to return will be seen) so that he can help them to work on their problems in a context (marriage) where solution can be reached. Two people, under separate roofs, will find it nearly impossible to solve problems that occur when they are under the same roof. Separation, therefore, only widens gaps and deepens difficulties. Of course, very brief separations (a couple of hours, an overnight at a friend’s house) – where one doesn’t pack his/her bags and has no intention of leaving – may at times (when one is violent, confused, etc.) be desirable. But in such a case the brief separation is to avoid situations that destroy problem-solving and make communication impossible. The design (in contrast to extended separation, no matter what is said or thought to the contrary) is to make it possible to face and solve problems God’s way – not to avoid them.

Jay Adams