You must completely end the adulterous affair. This other person must be plainly told that the relationship is over. If possible, ask for forgiveness (preferably on a conference call with your spouse or pastor on the line) for your selfishness and deceit. There can be no continuing communication (no secret rendezvous, telephone calls, cards, letters, or e-mails). The other person should be emphatically told not to contact you anymore. You must be willing to amputate from your life anything that will tempt you to reopen this [relationship]… Don’t keep any mementos, photographs, keepsakes, or other memorabilia that might tempt you to spend time thinking about (and fueling romantic feelings for) the other person. You may have to change your telephone number, your e-mail address, or the route you take to and from the office… [Now you will have to take the] money, time, thoughts, dreams, affection, initiative, and creative energies [that you spent on] the other person…[and reinvest them] with your spouse.

Lou Priolo

CATEGORY	CUISINE	TAG	YIELD
Grains	Italian	February 19	1	servings

INGREDIENTS

1/3	c	Blanched whole almonds
		A; (2-ounce) can flat
		; anchovies, rinsed
		; and patted dry
3		Garlic cloves
1		Shallot; quartered
3	tb	Olive oil
1	tb	Red-wine vinegar
1/4	ts	Herbes de Provence or dried Italian; crumbled
		; seasoning
1		Tomato; seeded and chopped
		; fine (about 3/4
		; cup)
1		Red bell pepper; chopped fine (about
		; 3/4 cup)
3	tb	Finely chopped fresh parsley leaves
		French bread toasts as an accompaniment

INSTRUCTIONS

In a food processor grind fine almonds with anchovies and garlic. With
motor running add shallot, oil, vinegar, and herbes de Provence and
blend well. Add tomato, bell pepper, and parsley and pulse motor
until just combined, being careful not to puree smooth.
Ancho&iuml;ade may be made 1 day in advance and kept covered and
chilled.
Serve anchoiade at room temperature on toasts.
Makes about 2 cups.
Gourmet February 1994
Converted by MC_Buster.
Converted by MM_Buster v2.0l.

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