When criticism comes, we must remember that our response is what we are modeling for others. The following principles help us eliminate defensiveness and pride: 1. Search for any part of the criticism that is true and own it (Psm. 51:4). 2. Make no demands on others to treat you as if there’d never been an offense (Psm. 138:6; Pro. 3:34; Mat. 3:12; 1 Pet. 5:6-7). 3. When a criticism has no merit, seek to understand how the person could’ve drawn their conclusions. 4. If a complaint is leveled with sinful attitudes, forgive the offense quickly and lavishly, exercise self-control, and respond with carefully chosen words and attitudes.

Jerry Wragg

CATEGORY	CUISINE	TAG	YIELD
Dairy		Cake	6	Servings

INGREDIENTS

1 1/4	c	Flour
1 1/4		Stick butter (soft)
1 1/4	c	Chopped pecans
8	oz	Pkg. cream cheese (soft)
1	c	Confectioner's sugar
2	ct	(8-oz) Cool Whip
3	pk	Instant chocolate pudding
4 1/4	c	Milk
		Chocolate chips

INSTRUCTIONS

Date: 14 Mar 1996 21:42 GMT
From: Mark Alexander <mark@alexr.co.uk>
Preheat Oven to 375F.
First Layer: Combine flour, butter and 1 cup Pecans in a 9 x 13 pan. Bake
at 375, for 20 min., let cool.
Second Layer: Beat cream cheese and sugar together; add 10 oz. of Cool
Whip; spread on first layer.
Third Layer: Mix 4 1/4 cups of milk with 3 pkgs of pudding; beat 2 minutes;
spread on second layer.
Top Layer: Top with remaining Cool Whip; sprinkle with the extra 1/4 cup
nuts and chocolate chips.
Refrigerate this over night.
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