Headship in a marriage works when both a husband and wife love Jesus, want to show Gospel and are both walking in the Spirit. Together they ultimately want the Lord’s glory. Together they discuss everything. The husband should never need to demand the wife to submit. They are a team. They have a shared vision for the family. When a certain spiritual direction is needed, the husband provides the leadership. But that decision is not implemented until they both have time to talk and pray through the issue. Together they may seek wise counsel. Perhaps the wife will give a new perspective to the husband. This is what teamwork is all about. This is the meaning of “one flesh.” If we both have the Holy Spirit, why would the Spirit guide us in two different directions? Yet only when all these avenues have been exhausted and the husband feels a certain direction is necessary for the family, then does the wife need to support her husband’s decision. Realizing it is the husband, not her that stands accountable before God.

Randy Smith

CATEGORY	CUISINE	TAG	YIELD
Dairy	Mexican	Sauces	1	Servings

INGREDIENTS

2	c	Toasted cashew pieces
3	c	Water or milk
2	ts	Freshly grated ginger
2	ts	Tamari
1/2	ts	Salt

INSTRUCTIONS

Puree' until very smooth in blender.  Heat gently.  Stir from the bottom as
you serve.
If you want a thicker,creamier sauce that goes a little further make a
roux: melt 3 TAB butter wisk in 3 TAB Flour Cook, whisking over low heat
2-5 min.  Whisk in heated cashew puree', and wook an additional 8-10
minutes.
Serve over steamed or sauteed vegetables and/or grains or fish.  Top with
scallions.
From: Western Mexican Cookbook
Posted to MM-Recipes Digest  by Harrison <littlebear@mindspring.com> on Mar
01, 1998

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