Ideally, the goal is to see the discipline of child gradually lessen as he or she approaches the teen years (the opposite of what we often see in society) because life lessons have been learned and righteous actions are personally desired. Yet that does not mean parents no longer have a responsibility to discipline their teenager when necessary. In these cases, we have found the best methods to be restitution (a good action toward the one wronged - see Exodus 22) and/or the removal of a privilege (loss of electronics, use of the car, attendance at an event, etc.). Rarely if ever would our teen discipline be 'grounding' (as in unreconciled confinement) or exclusion from family activities or the use of something good as an instrument for 'punishment' (house chores, exercise, writing, etc.).

Randy Smith

CATEGORY	CUISINE	TAG	YIELD
Eggs, Dairy, Seafood			1	Servings

INGREDIENTS

1/2		Lemon ; Juice of
3		Egg yolks
1	ds	Cayenne pepper
1/2	lb	(2 sticks) butter; cut into small cubes
1 1/2	c	Milk
2		Eggs; beaten
4	c	Corn flour (I use wheat flour)
2	tb	Garlic powder
1	ts	Salt
1	ts	Pepper
5		Green tomatoes; sliced 1/4-inch thick
1/2	c	Oil
10		Cooked crawfish; optional
2	tb	Butter; optional
		Grated Parmesan cheese

INSTRUCTIONS

TOMATOES
* Whisk together milk and eggs in small bowl.
Whisk together lemon juice, egg yolks and cayenne in top of double boiler
over barely simmering water. 30 seconds. Whisk in butter, cube at a time.
Continue whisking until all butter has been added and sauce is thoroughly
blended and smooth for about 5 minutes.
TOMATOES: Combine flour, garlic powder, salt and pepper on plate or in
shallow dish. Dip each tomato slice in milk mixture, then in flour mixture.
Repeat, dipping each slice again in milk mixture, then flour mixture. *
Heat oil in skillet over medium-high heat. Cook tomato slices in batches in
hot oil until golden brown, about 3 minutes. Drain on paper towels.
Transfer to plate and keep warm in oven at 200 degrees. * Shell crayfish
and remove tails. Heat butter in skillet until browned. Add crawfish tails
and saute until they turn bright red. * Place tomatoes on serving platter
with crawfish. Spoon Hollandaise Sauce over all. Sprinkle with Parmesan
cheese. Judy Howle
Posted to CHILE-HEADS DIGEST V4 #094 by Judy Howle <howle@ebicom.net> on
Aug 22, 1997

A Message from our Provider:

“I don’t know why some people change churches; what difference does it make which one you stay home from?”

Some will say we need to add “good works” to Christ’s work to be saved. Others will say since we are saved by God’s grace and because all of our sins are already forgiven in Christ we can live as we wish. So, the first says following God’s law is necessary to be saved. The other says following God’s law is unnecessary once saved. Both are terribly wrong! We are saved by grace alone, but the grace that saves is never alone. God’s grace will always give us the desire and ability to follow God. The greatest evidence that we are recipients of God’s grace will be seen through our obedience – not to get saved or stay saved, but proof that we truly are already saved.

Randy Smith