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God: "I looked for someone to take a stand for me, and stand in the gap" (Ezekiel 22:30)

One of the things that can help very different spouses the most (in conflict resolution) is growth in God's Word. The more we have God's Word in common as husbands and wives, the more we will agree. The more each mind is renewed (changed) by the Scripture, the more similarly a couple will think (Romans 12:2). One of the worst things a couple can do is work to change one another into each other's likeness. They are to be changed, rather, into Christ's likeness. The more a couple works at love and becoming one, the more differences will be accepted and blended to enhance the marriage.
Stuart Scott

The Discipline of silence is the voluntary and temporary abstention from speaking so that certain spiritual goals might be sought. Sometimes silence is observed in order to read, write, pray, and so on. Though there is no outward speaking, there are internal dialogues with self and with God. This can be called “outward silence.” Other times silence is maintained not only outwardly but also inwardly so that God’s voice might be heard more clearly.
Donald S. Whitney

Bible – chinese – 新标点和合本 以赛亚书 50

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耶和华如此说:
我休你们的母亲,
休书在哪里呢?
我将你们卖给我哪一个债主呢?
你们被卖,是因你们的罪孽;
你们的母亲被休,是因你们的过犯。
我来的时候,为何无人等候呢?
我呼唤的时候,为何无人答应呢?
我的膀臂岂是缩短、不能救赎吗?
我岂无拯救之力吗?
看哪,我一斥责,海就干了;
我使江河变为旷野;
其中的鱼因无水腥臭,干渴而死。
我使诸天以黑暗为衣服,
以麻布为遮盖。
耶和华仆人的顺服
主耶和华赐我受教者的舌头,
使我知道怎样用言语扶助疲乏的人。
主每早晨提醒,
提醒我的耳朵,
使我能听,像受教者一样。
主耶和华开通我的耳朵;
我并没有违背,也没有退后。
人打我的背,我任他打;
人拔我腮颊的胡须,我由他拔;
人辱我,吐我,我并不掩面。
 
主耶和华必帮助我,
所以我不抱愧。
我硬着脸面好像坚石;
我也知道我必不致蒙羞。
称我为义的与我相近;
谁与我争论,
可以与我一同站立;
谁与我作对,
可以就近我来。
主耶和华要帮助我;
谁能定我有罪呢?
他们都像衣服渐渐旧了,
为蛀虫所咬。
 
10 你们中间谁是敬畏耶和华、
听从他仆人之话的?
这人行在暗中,没有亮光。
当倚靠耶和华的名,
仗赖自己的 神。
11 凡你们点火,用火把围绕自己的
可以行在你们的火焰里,
并你们所点的火把中。
这是我手所定的:
你们必躺在悲惨之中。