So specifically based on what we already know, how do we, how can we nourish and cherish our wives (Eph. 5:28-30)? Here are some practical thoughts: Be sensitive and responsive to her needs. Let your actions and words show her respect. Pay attention when she talks to you. Demand the children honor her. Use gentle and kind words. Plan times alone together. Speak well of her to others. Accept her feelings. Be humble and submit to the authorities in your life. Tell her that she is beautiful. Sacrifice for her. Encourage her especially in her steps toward godliness. Take care of yourself. Be romantic. Tell her you love her. Be available if she has a need. Pray for her regularly. Be a gentleman. Lead the family spiritually. Take the lead on difficult decisions. Ask her opinion before making decisions. Learn what makes her feel special. Be faithful and loyal.
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#16-8: Happy Thanksgiving! (Our Hymn of Grateful Praise)

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The Hope Chest with Virginia Knowles
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Happy Thanksgiving!


(Our Hymn of Grateful Praise)

Novem

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Dear friends,

Happy Thanksgiving!  Just two more days until our American holiday of gratitude and feasting!  I still need to buy the rest of our food - like fresh cranberries! - and try to get some extra lesson planning and housework done on my week off from teaching.  My oldest daughter and her family flew to Tel Aviv yesterday and will spend Thanksgiving and Hanukkah in Israel.  My fourth daughter is still in Australia & New Zealand for a few more weeks.  So since not everyone's home this year to crowd around our huge table, my second daughter and her husband offered to host our Thanksgiving meal at their place. (It's pretty brave to invite 9 people over!)  We are still bringing most of the food, and let's hope we don't spill the hot wassail on the way over!

I'd like to share a recent blog post about a Thanksgiving hymn with photos, ideas for blessings others during the holidays, and lots of links.  After that, there are some other links for you as you prepare for Thanksgiving and Advent.  As we head into the holidays, please be aware that this can be a really sad and stressful time for some people because they are lonely, in poor health, in financial need, in a family crisis of some sort, or all of the above.  (I've been through all of these at various points of time, and it's not fun.) You don't always know what people are going through and they aren't always at liberty to tell you.  Please be sensitive and look for ways to be discretely kind without expecting them to be merry and jolly or even thankful in return.  It can make a huge difference.  


Please forward this along to anyone who might be blessed by it.  

Thank you and God bless you!

Virginia Knowles



“For the Beauty of the Earth”

Folliot S. Pierpoint, 1864

For the beauty of the earth

For the glory of the skies,

For the love which from our birth

Over and around us lies. 

Lord of all, to Thee we raise,

This our hymn of grateful praise.


 

For the beauty of each hour,

Of the day and of the night,

Hill and vale, and tree and flower,

Sun and moon, and stars of light. 

Lord of all, to Thee we raise,

This our hymn of grateful praise.


For the joy of ear and eye,

For the heart and mind’s delight,

For the mystic harmony

Linking sense to sound and sight. 

Lord of all, to Thee we raise,

This our hymn of grateful praise.


 


For the joy of human love,

Brother, sister, parent, child,

Friends on earth and friends above,

For all gentle thoughts and mild. 

Lord of all, to Thee we raise,

This our hymn of grateful praise.


 

For each perfect gift of Thine,

To our race so freely given,

Graces human and divine,

Flowers of earth and buds of Heaven. 

Lord of all, to Thee we raise,

This our hymn of grateful praise.


The Story Behind the Hymn: You can read the hymn and hear devotionals based on it here: "For the Beauty of the Earth" at Songs and Hymns.

Why I Picked It: This is a hymn we sang often in the mornings when I was home schooling my children.  I hope it has planted itself deep in their souls fora lifetime, and that they sing it to their own children.  I picked it this week because Thanksgiving is coming, and even though this is not so much an autumn harvest song, it is full of gratitude, of giving thanks. As I selected the pictures, which were taken over the past few years in different parts of the country, at first I paused to think, "Do they even go together?"  Usually, I post a set of pictures taken at one place on one day.  This are so disparate.  They didn't fit neatly into a single category: the tree silhouette from my morning walk in the neighborhood, the spontaneous sunset sky taken from the grocery store parking lot, the yellow water lily from Duke Gardens in North Carolina, my grandson playing in my front yard this summer, or the gourds from a farm in rural Maryland and the delicate butterfly in my mother's garden which brought hope to me after her death. But then I remember that's because God's blessings in our lives are so varied and his creativity is boundless.  Just thinking of the sheer number of plant and animal species on this globe astounds me, and then there's the ever changing nature and mystery of clouds, which hold a special place in my heart. (I know I am weird.)  The affection and nurture of my family, the curiosity and eagerness of my students, the kindness of friends from church or in our neighborhood -- these too bless my soul beyond measure. Nature, family, provision, insight...  So much God has given me!

Ideas to Do:  Let's take it beyond mere thoughts and beyond our own lives.  How can we respond in a way that brings good to our families, communities, and beyond? A few ideas, if I may?  We'll start easy and work up...

Deer outside Grandma's window

Bring the beauty of nature and nurture to those who are shut in. This includes those in nursing homes, hospitals, prisons, or even those who are home-bound because of age or illness or pregnancy.  My grandmother lives in a memory care facility, and my family members make sure there is birdseed in the feeder and a salt lick for the deer so she can nature watch through the window from her easy chair. (See here.)  A bouquet of flowers, a handful of acorns, a potted plant, framed nature photos, a pretty book, a basket of fruit, a CD of soothing music like hymns? (A little mystic harmony can do wonders for the body and soul.) 


Go through the entire process of thanksgiving, putting grace into action. I talked with my students about this yesterday, as I did with a co-op class last year. We thought about who had blessed us recently, and wrote about how we could both express our gratitude and pass along the kindness. Read more here: Thankfulness: Observe, Appreciate, Express, Imitate.

Thanksgiving 2001, Indian & Chinese students from UCF

Invite an international student (or two, or ten...) to dinner for Thanksgiving. Most of them never eat a meal in the home of an American family in the years they are here.  Contact the international student office at your local college. See: Our Thanksgiving Indians.  (Speaking also as the mother of a college student who is in Australia for several months -- yeah, that little girl in the red in the picture, who is now all grown up -- I am ever grateful for those who are showing hospitality to her!  I think she might also be organizing an American Thanksgiving meal for fellow exchange students at the University of Canberra, but I'm so glad she'll be home by Christmas!)


Homeless outreach in Orlando

Think of those who do not have the same blessings as you. What can you do?  In my last hymn post, I talked a little bit about the hungry.  This time, my heart is pulled to those who do not have the joy of human love, the support system of family and friends: orphans, abused or neglected children, those in the bondage of human trafficking, and the homeless.  How can your family become involved in foster care, adoption, mentoring, advocating, or homeless outreach?  So blessed that 

Julia (

one of my adult daughters

)

 along with her sweet husband and church friends, is organizing a homeless outreach this Sunday, as they do several times a year. (You can read about it and see my photos here:  Homeless in the Suburbs.)   Read the posts that my friend and orphan advocate Cissy VanLue has written about adoption. Then there is my friend Jane Hursh, who is active in the fight against human trafficking and the restoration of those who have been victimized.  (You will love her Jane's Short and Sweet shortbread that she sells to raise money for their 306 Foundation ministry!) You might not be able to spearhead your own ministry, as my friends have done, but you can sure jump on board and help!  What has God put in your heart?  If you can't answer that, take the time to sit quietly and ask.


Five of my daughters and I
Think about your own human connections. What can you do to foster understanding and compassion in your sphere of family and friends?  Is there a relationship that needs to be repaired and strengthened, or one where too loose boundaries are damaging emotional health?  It may be that your own parenting style needs to be adjusted.  See Web Links about Parenting with Grace Instead of Authoritarian Legalism and Tender Compassion for Mothers. Holidays can sure bring extra tension to the table, so let's bring a full measure of grace and wisdom.  See Beating the Holiday Blues and Stress and Handling Family Issues and Visits During the Holidays. 

And here we thought we were just going to read a little hymn and see a few pretty pictures, huh?  🙂  I guess you never know what you'll get when you read my stuff! Speaking of that, I do encourage you to click on some of the links I have embedded here.  After all, you never know what you might find!  This is the 26th post in my Strength in Hymn series, and one of 19 in the Advocating for the Vulnerable category.  


Lord of all, 

to Thee we raise,

This our hymn 

of grateful praise.


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