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4/3/08 Gardening, Drought Resistant, Herbs, Tea, Trees, Seasons, Garage Sales

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4/3/08  Gardening, Drought Resistant, Herbs, Tea, Trees, Seasons, Garage Sales
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IN THIS ISSUE: 

LANDSCAPING FOR DROUGHT CONDITIONS

PERENNIALS FOR THE SHADE         
TREES AND SHRUBS
A LANDSCAPE DESIGNER'S ADVICE ON ORNAMENTAL PEAR AND PLUM TREES
HERB GARDENING AND HARVESTING
A FUN CHILDREN'S GARDEN WITH ANIMALS AND INSECTS
PRACTICAL GARDENING TIPS
5 BEST BUDGET GARDENING BASICS
HOUSEPLANTS IN LIVING COLOR
OUTDOOR AND GARDENING TIPS USING WHITE DISTILLED VINEGAR
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A LANDSCAPE AND A GARDEN
SEASONS OF LIFE
PLANNING YOUR GARAGE SALE
UNAPPRECIATED
WELCOME TO A NEW BABY BOY AND GIRL!
EASY-TO-SEW BURP PAD
CRUNCHY CHOCOLATE PEANUT BUTTER BARS

 
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LANDSCAPING FOR DROUGHT CONDITIONS
Drought Tolerant Flowers, Herbs, Shrubs and Trees
By Lois Breneman, © Revised 2008, Heart to Heart Newsletter, [email protected] 

Carol Miller, a Landscape Designer in Pennsylvania, and a close friend of mine since childhood, was a great help to me in expanding this list.
 
Due to a serious drought conditions in many parts of the country over the past year or more, as the ground has thawed for spring planting, many of us are looking for more drought resistant plants.  No matter where we live, this is good information to know, so here are a few suggestions.
 
Carol said we should water new plants at least once a week during the first year, no matter how drought tolerant they are, until they are established.  Mulching also keeps the roots cooler and prevents the plants from drying out as fast.  One inch of water a week is good, unless you have a normal rainfall. 
 
Drought Tolerant Perennials for the Sun
Rosemary ~ Fragrant for in arrangements or potpourri 
Bee Balm ~ In the tea family ~ Make tea / eat the flowers ~ bees love it ~ can be invasive
Hyssop ~ pink, blue, copper ~ blooms July to Sept. (Also one with chartreuse foliage - "Golden Jubilee"
Iris ~ pink, blue, white, yellow, and there are also some rebloomers
Pincushion Flower ~ Comes in blue ~ easy to grow
Sedum ~ many varieties available ~ Some have flowers ~ easy
Day Lily ~ Many colors ~ yellow, pink, orange, white, red, peach
Candytuft ~ one of the earliest to bloom in the spring
Yarrow ~ Yellow, light and airy fuchsia which multiplies rapidly
Germander herb - mauve flowers - great for borders
Lamb's Ear ~Silvery and soft with tiny purple flowers ~ easy
Moss phlox ~ groundcover ~ pink, lavender, white
Lavender ~Use for potpourri and arrangements      Cosmos        
Liatris ~ Tall with beautiful blooms ~ Bees love it     Jupiters beard - pink, red
Russian Sage ~ Light, airy purple flowers                 Butterfly Weed 
Coneflower - white, orange, purple, burgundy          Strawflower  
Penstemon - white, purple, pink and garnet             Snow-in-summer
Guara-pink - blooms all summer                               Tickseed ~ yellow, pink and burgundy
Dianthus ~ red, white, pink                                         Tickweed
Blanket flower ~ orange, burgundy                            Black eyed Susan
Artemisa ~ Silvery with fragrance                              Spiderwort
Wild Blue Indigo                                                           Ice plant
Basket of Gold                                                             Blackberry Lily
Shasta Daisy                                                               
                                                           
Drought Tolerant Annuals for Sun                      Drought Tolerant Shrubs
Zinnia ~ Many colors                                                    Spirea ~ white, pink, raspberry           
Lantana                                                                         Potentilla-yellow, white, red   
Statice                                                                           Flowering quince                 
Cosmos                                                                        Cotoneaster-Franchetti   
Dusty Miller                                                                   Nine Bark  
Nasturtium                                                                     Barberry-burgundy and gold
Marigold                                                                        Privet-gold   
Verbena                                                                        Butterfly Bush
Vinca ~ white, dark pink , purple, white, lavender
Globe Amaranth ~ Great clover-like flower for drying
 
Drought Tolerant Trees
Russian Olive
Washington Hawthorn
Chestnut Oak
Jack Pine
Crab Apple
 

A LANDSCAPE DESIGNER'S ADVICE ON ORNAMENTAL PEAR AND PLUM TREES
Several years ago, after we had lost two fully grown Ornamental Bradford Pear Trees on two different occasions (a hurricane and later a heavy March snow), I asked my friend, Carol Miller, if there were other alternatives.  We had also lost a beautiful plum tree to disease. 
 
Carol Miller, Landscape Designer in York, Pennsylvania, advised us of two much stronger pear trees and a disease resistant plum tree.  Here is what she said:
 
The ornamental pear tree we have and love is the Chanticleer Pear Tree.  It isn't as wide as the other pears, but looks great at all times.  We have had that tree about ten years.  It has red wine fall foliage, and is about 35 feet tall.  We also have the Aristocrat Pear Tree, which has yellow to red fall foliage and is 40 feet tall.  The Newport Ornamental Plum Tree is disease resistant and should be hardy as far north as northern Ohio.  That tree is 20 feet tall. 
 
HERB GARDENING AND HARVESTING
By Lois Breneman, © 2005, Heart to Heart Newsletter, [email protected] 
 
I would encourage you to start your own herb garden.  One reason herbs are so easy to grow is because they like it hot and dry --- watering is not normally necessary.  If you mulch around the herbs, there will be very few weeds.  The good part is that you will have lots of wonderful herbs to cut with scissors, wash, spin dry in a salad spinner and add to your salads, vegetables and meat dishes, as well as plenty left over to freeze or dry for later use..  
 
You will enjoy the benefits so much!  Have you seen those tiny packages of mint, sage, basil or oregano in the supermarket for the high price of 2-4 dollars?  You could start your own herb garden by purchasing just a few different herbs the first year.  Many nurseries sell herbs, but I found the best buys to be at our local farmer's market.  Herbs come in a mix of perennials and annuals. 
 
Perennials that are good to start with are chives, garlic chives, thyme, sage, rosemary, Greek oregano, peppermint (plant where it won't spread out of its bounds), lemon balm, lavender, and salad brunette (has a cucumber flavor).  The great part is that they return every year, unless the winter was too harsh.
 
Annuals that are special enough to buy every year are Italian parsley (flat leaves and flavorful), sweet basil, and dill.  Dill seeds itself, and volunteers always come up in my garden, but last year I saved seeds and have planted those to keep the dill in one area. 
 
How to Freeze Herbs
It's best to harvest herbs right before they bloom.  Not only can you use these herbs fresh, but you can freeze them as well, after they are washed, spun dry and chopped up fine (a food processor works great).  Spread them out on a wax paper-lined cookie sheet, freeze, and package in freezer bags for future use.  Another way is to fill an ice cube tray with herbs, and pour some water into each cube before freezing the tray.  Then when cooking soups, a cube of herbs can be added for extra flavor and nutrition.

How to Dry Herbs

1) Using a basket, gather fresh herbs right before they bloom.  Cut long stems with scissors.
2) Tie bunches of about 4-5 stems together with string and tie onto a clothes hanger with several bundles of herbs hanging from one hanger.  Hang in a dark, dry, ventilated area until all the moisture is removed.  Some people hang herbs outdoors to dry, but do avoid the rain.  Another method is simply stripping the leaves from the stems and placing them on a drying screen. 
3) After the herbs are completely dried out and even crumble at the touch, remove the leaves from the stems and crush the leaves by hand. They can also be pressed through a sieve or put into the food processor.  Be sure to remove all the tiny stems.
4) Package in glass airtight jars and label.
 
Not only do herbs provide a variety of fragrance, color, and texture to a garden, they can be used fresh in countless dishes for added flavor and nutrition, or as lovely garnishes!  And you haven't lived until you've made your own peppermint tea fresh from the garden!  Here's how!
 
PEPPERMINT TEA
1) Cut enough peppermint to wash and fill a 6 quart Dutch oven. 
2) Fill the pot with water.  Cover with lid.
3) Bring to a boil.
4) Turn off and let steep for 20-30 minutes.
5) Pour into a sieve over a one gallon plastic pitcher.
6) Chill and enjoy.
 
 
A FUN CHILDREN'S GARDEN WITH ANIMALS AND INSECTS
By Lois Breneman, © Revised 2008, Heart to Heart Newsletter, [email protected] 
Carol Miller, a Landscape Designer in Pennsylvania, and a close friend of mine since childhood, was a great help to me in expanding this list.
 
Animals:                                         
Donkey's Tail,  Frog's Tongue (sedum), American Dog Violet, Oxeye,  Sunflower,                        
Bearberry (ground cover), Lamb's Ear, Sheep Laurel, Monkey Grass, Catnip Tea, Dogwood Tree, Goatsbeard, Spotted Horsemint, Horsetail, Pink Fawn, Squirrel Corn Bleeding Heart,
Dalmation Bellflower, Snapdragon, Tiger Lily
 
Insects:
Spider Lily, Butterfly Weed, Butterfly Bush, Spiderwort, Tickseed, Bee Balm, Bugbane, Mosquito Grass, Royal Catchfly, Dragonfly
 
 
PRACTICAL GARDENING TIPS
By Lois Breneman, © Updated 2008, Heart to Heart Newsletter, [email protected] 
 
With the cost of produce rising, many families are turning to gardening again!  It's a great recreational pastime for families, and I've been gardening since I was a young child until the last few years.  Here are a few tips to make it easier.
 
*Get your children involved in the skill and fun of gardening.  You will cultivate in them the love of caring for plants, watching them grow as God performs His wonderful miracle, and harvesting them for food and enjoyment.
*Use sunscreen before gardening.  You may also want to wear a hat to protect from the sun.
*Wear a shirt with a pocket while gardening and keep a tissue and sunscreen chapstick handy.
*Scrape a bar of soap across your fingernails to prevent dirt from getting under your nails.
*Carry your gardening tools in a small caddy, as is used for carrying cleaning supplies.      

*A good wheel barrow is a back-saver and very helpful for transporting mulch, plants to transplant and a multitude of other things.  Heavy plastic ones won't rust if kept outdoors.     
*If you have a portable or cell phone, take it with you as you garden so you don't miss any important calls, but use it while inside a Ziploc bag to protect it from dirt and water.  Of course, if you get a call that can wait, tell them you will call back at a more convenient time.   
*A rubber kneeling pad found in the gardening department is kinder to your knees than the ground for when you have to be on your knees to plant flowers or vegetables or pull weeds. 
*Some people like to use a small stool as they work in the garden. You can even purchase a gardening stool on wheels these days with storage too.    
*Use a "grabber" for picking up sticks in your yard after heavy winds.  It's a back saver.
*A 5 gallon bucket is handy as you pull weeds.  
*Take time out to enjoy the singing birds while you are gardening and thank the Lord for the miracle of growth as you watch your garden grow and enjoy the fruits of your labor!
*If you're short on gardening space, try "Square Foot Gardening," using the book by that name.
*Raised flower and vegetable beds are much easier on your back.
*A combination of raised beds using "Square Foot Gardening" would be a gardener's dream!
*Extend the growing season at both ends by building and using a cold frame.
*Check out a book at the library on how to propagate plants.  It isn't difficult.  You can learn how to take cuttings from lilacs, forsythia and weigelia bushes, roses, redbud trees and many other plants.  It will take longer for results, but it won't cost you a thing, except practice in patience.  Share cuttings with your neighbors and ask if you may have cuttings from their yard as well.
 
 
5 BEST BUDGET GARDENING BASICS
By Kathleen Wilson, Copyright 2004, http://www.theBudgetDecorator.com, Used by permission
 
Decorating the outside of your home very often involves some type of garden. Not only can living plants add value, curb appeal, and charm to your home, gardening has been known to soothe ones soul. Gardening on a tight budget can be a challenge, but with a little knowledge, a little creativity, and a do-it-yourself spirit, it can be much more rewarding than traditional
landscaping.
 
1. Start small. Pick out a small spot in your yard or decide to grow in containers only and pick up a few basic pots. If you spend a whole weekend tearing up your yard your first time out, chances are you will become overwhelmed and find it an unhappy experience, not to mention a waste of money. Let the joys of growing things be a pleasure, not a chore. You can always expand your garden as you gain experience.
 
2. Learn some basics. It isn’t budget wise to but a bunch of plants, slap them in the ground without any knowledge, then watch them die. With a little education, you can be assured of a more successful garden, and save money in mistakes from the start! Some great places to get information for beginners is your local library, your nursery, and the Internet. The Internet is filled with garden information, just type “gardening” into your search engine, and go!
 
3. Don't be afraid to use unusual materials. Chunks of recycled concrete can make a wonderful retaining wall or garden border, gravel can be used for a patio instead of flagstone, plastic pots can be painted to look like stone. Plant in unusual containers to fit the style of your home. Use indoor things outdoors. Use paint (it’s cheap!) wherever possible to create an interesting fence or wall, or tie unmatched garden furniture and accessories together. Create luminaries out of tin cans and candles from the dollar store.
 
4. Use nature in nature. Make your garden an expression of what it really is, a wonder of nature. Display driftwood directly in your garden and let flowers spill over it, bring in large rocks and gravel and create faux stream beds (don’t buy them, there is bound to be a building site nearby where they would thank you for hauling the rocks away!) If you take a trip to the ocean, bring back shells and mementos to remind you of your vacation. Just remember to always know the local laws and have permission to gather.
 
5. Find your materials in budget friendly places. Grow simple, fast growing plants from seed instead of buying more expensive plants. Sunflowers, cosmos, marigolds, zinnias and alyssum are all incredibly easy to grow from seed, at any time during the growing season. Ask your local building site if you can search their scrap piles for materials. Scrap wood can be used to create simple containers, rocks make great borders, broken tiles can be used to make mosaic stepping stones. Cut down wood can be used to make decorative fencing, old tree stumps can be beautiful with a flowering vine growing over it.
 
A few containers near your door, or a fenced vegetable garden, or an English garden 
landscape … all these can be used to create a beautifully decorated outdoor oasis for your family, on the tightest budget.  Always remember, “Creativity, Not Cash!”
Kathleen Wilson is an author, national columnist, and editor of  The Budget Decorator. For more free ideas and for information on her online budget decorating workshop, please visit her at http://www.theBudgetDecorator.com
 
 
HOUSEPLANTS IN LIVING COLOR
By Lois Breneman ~ © Updated 2008 ~ Heart to Heart Newsletter ~ [email protected]
Houseplants add so much to any home.  Life, for one thing!  And color, for another!  But don't forget that it's been shown by the National Aeronautics and Space Administration that many common household plants also help clean indoor air, according to Effie Moore of Plant Culture, Inc.  She says the fiscus tree, peace lily and Chinese evergreen are but a few that can clean your indoor air of toxins such as benzene, formaldehyde and trichloroethylene.  These toxins are emitted to our indoor air by such common items as tobacco smoke, carpeting, paints, inks, dyes - even facial tissues and detergents.
 
Pothos is extremely easy to grow and is a plant with lush, beautiful foliage.  If you think you don't have a green thumb at all, or even if you do, this is a good one for you.  There are several varieties - some with dark green leaves and others with yellow specks in the green leaves.  For years I have kept four pots of pothos which have thickened to appear as one, on a little round table - about 2 1/2 feet in diameter.  Trimming them is the key.  A round tablecloth drapes down to the floor, covering the inexpensive table and a round piece of glass covers the top, in case water gets spilled while watering the plants.  As an additional function, the table also provides
great storage underneath, hidden by the tablecloth. Pothos needs to be trimmed in order to grow thick and bushy.  For additional plants, stick the trimmings in water to root them.  Each time I water my plants (about once a week or less - whenever they dry out), I pull off any yellowed leaves.  This is truly one of the most carefree and forgiving plants you can grow.
 
The peace lily, sometimes referred to as the plantation lily, is another favorite of mine and is also very easy to grow.  When I see my peace lily droop, that is a reminder to water it and it revives in short time.  It is a beautiful plant which does very well in front of a northern window, or a few feet from a sunny east, south or west window.
 
African violets are easy to grow as well, and add so much color to any room, even during the frigid and sometimes dreary months of January and February!  In fact, they seem to show off their colors best during those months for some reason.   Maybe they know that we all need the cheery colors of purples, fuchsias, pinks and blues to give us hope that spring is near!   In January my African violets are especially loaded with blossoms and they will bloom sporadically throughout the year with very little care.  I simply water the violets from the bottom up, by pouring water into the clear plastic saucer with sides - available in garden centers.  They like to soak up the water, rather than having it poured over them.  Sometimes I give them a little liquid fertilizer for violets and they stay happy and brighten up many months for me.  They set on a table in front of my southern exposure window with a porch roof helping to protect them from too much sunshine, though I've read that they prefer an eastern window.  You might want to start with just one or two bright African violet plants and see how much you enjoy them.
 
A few other plants that are easy to grow are spider plants, philodendron and Swedish ivy.  You might also want to try a sweet potato plant, simply by cutting a sweet potato or yam in half and placing it in a half inch of water.  Beautiful green leaves will grow from each sprout in a short time.  Keep the plant trimmed if you want it to grow into a thick and bushy plant.  Or how about a citrus plant?  Plant 8 to 10 orange, lemon or grapefruit seeds about 1/2 inch deep in the soil of a 4 inch flowerpot.  They will produce a lovely citrus bush with shiny leaves within a year. 
 
If forgetting to water your plants is the reason you've given up on live houseplants, or haven't even tried them, check into a large variety of cactus plants (succulents), since they need much less watering.  Not all of them are prickly.  One succulent is the snake plant which is very easy to grow, also referred to as the mother-in-law plant!  I'd hate to know how it got that name! 
 
If houseplants have always made you nervous, but you are going to be brave and just start out with one houseplant, I'd recommend the pothos.  Happy indoor gardening!
 
OUTDOOR AND GARDENING TIPS USING WHITE DISTILLED VINEGAR
http://www.vinegartips.com/gardening - Thanks to Helen Rutrough in Virginia for these tips!

Kill weeds and grass growing in unwanted places by pouring full-strength white distilled vinegar on them. This works especially well in crevices and cracks of walkways and driveways.

Give acid-loving plants like azaleas, rhododendrons, hydrangeas and gardenias a little help by watering them with a white distilled vinegar solution now and again. A cup of white distilled vinegar to a gallon of tap water is a good mixture.

Stop ants from congregating by pouring white distilled vinegar on the area.

Discourage cats from getting into the kids’ sandbox with white distilled vinegar.

Preserve cut flowers and liven droopy ones by adding 2 tablespoons white distilled vinegar and 1 teaspoon sugar to a quart of water in a vase.

Get rid of the water line in a flower vase by filling it with a solution of half water and half white distilled vinegar, or by soaking a paper towel in white distilled vinegar and stuffing it into the vase so that it is in contact with the water line.

Clean out stains and white mineral crusts in clay, glazed and plastic pots by soaking them for an hour or longer in a sink filled with a solution of half water and half white distilled vinegar.

Remove crusty rim deposits on house planters or attached saucers by soaking them for several hours in an inch of full-strength white distilled vinegar.

Clean a birdbath by scrubbing it often with undiluted white distilled vinegar. Rinse well.

Get rid of rust on spigots, tools, screws or bolts by soaking the items overnight or for several days in undiluted white distilled vinegar.

Neutralize garden lime by adding white distilled vinegar to the area.

Avoid skin problems after working in the garden by rinsing your hands in white distilled vinegar.

Increase the acidity of soil by adding white distilled vinegar to your watering can.

Eliminate anthills by pouring in white distilled vinegar.

Cure a cement pond before adding fish and plants by adding one gallon of white distilled vinegar to every 200 gallons of water. Let sit three days. Empty and rinse thoroughly.

Sanitize outdoor furniture and picnic tables with a cloth soaked in white distilled vinegar.

Kill slugs by spraying them with a mixture of 1 part water and 1 part white distilled vinegar.

To catch moths use a mixture of 2 parts white distilled vinegar and 1 part molasses. Place mixture in tin can and hang in a tree.

Keep rabbits from eating your plants. Put cotton balls soaked in white distilled vinegar in a 35mm film container. Poke a hole in the top and place in the garden.

Remove berry stains on your hands by rubbing them with white distilled vinegar.

Clean plastic patio furniture with a solution of 1 tablespoon white distilled vinegar to 1 gallon of water.

Wash fresh vegetables with a mixture of 1 tablespoon of white distilled vinegar in 1 ½ quarts of water.

When cleaning an outdoor fountain, soak the pump in white distilled vinegar to remove any mineral deposits.

Clean a hummingbird feeder with white distilled vinegar—soap or detergent can leave behind harmful residue.

Remove mold from terra cotta pots by soaking in a solution of 1 cup white distilled vinegar, 1 cup chlorine bleach, and 1 gallon of warm water before scrubbing with a steel wool pad.

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A LANDSCAPE AND A GARDEN
Thanks to Prudence Kinley-Ruth in Pennsylvania for sharing these tidbits.

A landscape is an expression of your checkbook.  A garden is an expression of your soul.
A garden is a labor of love, and a landscape is just a labor.
A landscape is a possession. A garden is an obsession.

SEASONS OF LIFE
By Margie DeMonbrun in Missouri -- 2001 -- Used by permission

God speaks to us through His Word and through His creation.  We are all aware that there is perfect order of creation in which God so beautifully demonstrates His care for all of nature.  Matt: 6:30 tells us, "And if God cares so wonderfully for flowers that are here today and gone tomorrow, won't He more surely care for you?"     

Many people today are struggling to survive.  Sometimes we just need to refresh our faith in God's providence with the beauty of His Word and His world.  Nothing is more powerful in meeting our needs than the Word of God. When push comes to shove, and the going gets really rough and rocky, there is nothing in this world that can settle you down, bring you peace, give you comfort and hope as does God's Word.  We know God and His Word NEVER change .... they are the same yesterday, today and forever. Heb. 13:8.

And in God's creation, although it changes by season, it does so very systematically year after year after year.  Just as there are seasons in nature, there are cycles and patterns of change in our lives, each having its own purpose.   Remember, God never changes.  His faithfulness, mercy and love are evidenced in all the seasons of our lives.  He grants us strength for each new day while providing the assurance that all of our tomorrows are filled with hope and security.  Nature itself is a bold witness to the steadfast care of His hand.     

We can compare God's seasons in nature with the seasons of our life. 
Let's start with Spring ... A Time of Hope.  Spring is a chance to begin anew. As we plant seeds in the garden things begin to grow.  In our Christian life, as we plant seeds based on the promises of His Word, we know a time of beauty and bounty is inevitable.  Stay in His Word, pray and attend church regularly.  
    
Summer ... A Time of Faith.  Our garden begins to grow in the rich soil and we see the vegetables, fruit and flowers.  In our Christian life we get encouragement with the promises of provision for our needs as we grow in the richness of God's Word.  Become active in Christian work; do what He wants you to do.
    
Fall ... A Time to Harvest.  We pick and harvest our gardens and lay up the rewards of our labors for the winter time. In the Christian life we experience the riches of His blessings as our inheritance as we harvest crops grown in His field. These are the fruits of our labors and gifts given to and used by God to further the Gospel and the Christian way of life and walk here on earth.       

Now let's talk about Winter ... A Time of Surrender.  In God's creation all nature surrenders to this season.  Like it or not, the trees are bare, it becomes colder, ice and snow come.  Winter can be hard, tough and depressing.  But it comes.  And in the Christian life, during the winters that come to us, we experience circumstances we would not choose.  But God promises victory through darkness and gives us strength for each trial.  In all the unexpected tough times, God's continuous guidance is always present to those who allow Him to be Lord of their lives.       

In the winter times of life we must be very careful for the same things that happen in nature can happen to us spiritually.  We can become cold, exhausted physically and mentally, and become depressed and thus become barren spiritually.   Remember, whatever we are going through, God knows when enough is enough.  If you are tempted to question His leading, remind yourself that He thinks of you all the time; and He will not make you take one step beyond what you can endure.  Many times we feel we just can't go on, but when that next step comes He will so strengthen us that we shall be able to go on; or, He will call a sudden halt, and you will not have to take it at all.      

During spring, summer and fall--plant, water, and harvest from Him and His Word for the winter.  And if you are in a winter experience, get in from the cold of the winter blasts and trials, come close to God, place yourself under His protective wing; hide yourself in His Word.  Use this time to let Christ build His character in you as He teaches you and loves you.  He knows the beginning to the end of this time of struggle and pain and He will make a way for you where there appears no way.  Let us go on and trust fully in His Word for guidance and stand firm on His promises.   A promise to remember for all seasons is found in Jer. 32:27, "Behold, I am the Lord, the God of all flesh; is there anything too hard for me?"

PLANNING YOUR GARAGE SALE
By Cheryl Gochnauer, Copyright 2008, [email protected], Used by permission
 
Here in the Land of Opportunity, we're on the brink of Garage Sale Season. Figuring out what to part with is easy. You're tired of it.  It hasn't fit in two years, and never will. The color is wrong; the style is wrong; it's just not you. 
 
But hang a sign on it, and somebody's sure to think it's perfect for them.
 
With the right spin, trash miraculously transforms into prime merchandise. Flame your entrepreneurial spirit with these tips for your upcoming garage sale.
 
Presentation Really Is Everything.  Appear disorganized and dirty, and buyers will drive right by.
 
Instead, mow the grass and sweep the sidewalk. Advertise in the local paper and, if your community allows it, post bright signs at nearby major intersections, leading buyers to your
door with arrows. Tie balloons to your banister. Move large, eye-catching items like furniture out on the driveway. Open all garage doors; turn on all lights. Make everything easy to see.
 
Smile at visitors, but don't hover. Stand at their shoulder, and you'll lose sales. Instead, sit at a table on the driveway, with pop and cookies.
 
Divide your garage and driveway into clearly defined zones, like baby clothes, household items, children's toys, bedding and linens, etc.
 
* Thumbtack sheets to hang from the ceiling, then stash "not-for-sale" items behind the curtain.
 
* Have an extension cord ready to prove electrical items work. 
 
* Don't lump 50 stuffed animals together, hoping someone will take time to sort through them. Instead, place an elf next to a sparkly Christmas dress. Position a cowboy peeking over a pair of boots. Have a huge teddy bear "read" one of a series of books piled beside him.
 
* Know your customer. Used prom dresses are a hard sale to adults, but take those same chiffons and hawk them in the toy section under "Dress-up Clothes" and a mini-ballet dancer or
princess will clean you out. 
 
* Play easy listening music, giving your sale ambiance.  Instead of stacking pictures on a table, display them in appropriate areas: a still-life by some dishes, an angel positioned over a crib.
 
* If something's dated, come up with a new way to enjoy it.  For instance, don't display an old Selectric with your office supplies. Roll in a piece of glow-orange paper, set the typewriter with the kids' stuff, and plug it in. Watch a preschooler fall in love with its tap-tap-tap.
 
* Put play cars, trucks and other "try before you buy" toys on a sturdy area rug. While Mom shops, Junior will bond with something, then take it home.
 
* Don't pack clothes tightly on rods; separate them by size and type. Hang dresses; put shorts and tops in clearly marked boxes or baskets: "Boys 2T-4T;" "Girls 10-12." Display frilly baby outfits on ladder rungs.
 
Playing Garage Sale Limbo: How low will they go? That's the question on shoppers' minds as they spring from cars. Don't keep them in suspense; post prices prominently. Color-coded dots work well; stick one on every item and let shoppers check a chart for prices: yellow-25, blue-50, red-75, etc.
 
* Garage-salers are looking for deals. Don't demoralize them with $10 toddler dresses. Know what similar items are selling for at other sales, then charge SLIGHTLY higher prices. When
merchandise is clean and attractively displayed, shoppers are willing to pay more. (But not ten times more.)
 
* The first person up your driveway will try to negotiate, but don't drop prices before noon. If someone makes an offer, write down their phone number and call them later if the item doesn't sell.
 
* Build in perceived value. If books are 50 cents, offer "3 for a dollar". Toss in free sheets when you sell a bed.
 
* Start the day with plenty of change so the first shopper doesn't clean you out, using a $20 to pay for a 75-cent purchase. Keep money in a fanny pack, and immediately take large bills in the house for safekeeping.
 
Garage-saling is a combination of fun and sport. Tailor your sale to please your customers, and stuff will fly off your shelves.
 

UNAPPRECIATED 

© 2007, Stacy R Miller - Proverbs 31 devotionals - My blog

 

A common thing experienced by women is feeling unappreciated as a wife and mom.  Yet God still sees EVERYTHING you do.  He sees your faithfulness in serving your family, and the loving way in which you do it.   Though it may often go unnoticed by others, it will NEVER go unnoticed by your Father.

 

While you may get weary and worn in your daily duties, many of which can be very mundane, God sees your perseverance, even on those days when you are absolutely exhausted.

 

He is watching over you when you are up all night with a sick child.  He closely observes you on your knees in prayer over a wayward child. 

 

He sees you wash that load of laundry when you would rather leave it undone.  He notices when you wash that load of dishes when you would prefer to be reading a book or taking a nap.  He watches as you clean the house when you would rather eat a scrumptious candy bar while chatting with a friend.  He takes notice of you on those days when you feel so lonely, lost in the myriad of tasks which are part of motherhood.  In those times, He reaches out to you, saying, "My precious daughter, I am here.  Listen for my voice, for I am always trying to express my deep love for you."

 

WELCOME TO A NEW BABY BOY AND GIRL!

 

Daniel James Rysewyk was born on March 20, 2008 to Matt and Jen Rysewyk.  Ron and Debbie Rysewyk and Steve and Sue Neumeyer are the grandparents.  All live in Wisconsin. Daniel is the first grandchild on both sides of the family! 
 

Meagan Karissa Mast was born on March 22, 2008 in Tennessee.  She has brought much joy to her parents, Chad and Doris Mast, and big sister and brother, Anna and Kyle.

 

 

EASY-TO-SEW BURP PAD

We just spent a week visiting our son, daughter-in-law and brand new grandson, Daniel Joel!  What can I say, except that he is absolutely precious!  I had the privilege of making a sailboat quilt for him, but he hasn't noticed it yet.  He did notice some black and white burp pads with specks of red that I sewed up for him while there though, since babies are able to see those colors first.  If you enjoy sewing, or want to try an easy project, this is it!  Cut two identical rectangles of the black and white fabric - or any other interesting fabric.  Cut one matching layer from batting, fleece or an old soft blanket.  I used a blanket that had seen its better days but was thick and soft.  Lay down the fleece, with the two layers of fabric (right sides together)smoothed out on top.   Pin well and cut slightly rounded corners for continuous sewing.  Sew around the cloth, leaving about 5 inches to turn right side out.  Turn, press, and hand sew the opening shut.  Top stitch all around the edge about 1/4 inch from the edge.

 

 

CRUNCHY CHOCOLATE PEANUT BUTTER BARS

Thanks to Rachael Breneman, our daughter-in-law in Ohio, for this recipe which she made for us in their home last week!  Delicious for those who love chocolate and peanut butter together!

(Sucanat is a natural and more healthy substitute for white sugar, much like brown sugar, and can be found in health food stores.  Our other daughter-in-law, Emily Breneman, helped me make this recipe today, using 1 cup sucanat and 1/2 cup xylitol, another sweetner that can be purchased at a health food store or through http://www.Iherb.com.  Xylitol is good for baking and lower in calories and carbohydrates than sugar, but requires equivilant amounts for sweetness as sugar, and is rather expensive.  Stevia is a sugar substitute, very low in carbs and calories, but much less is needed for sweetness.  The next "Heart to Heart" will include more heathy sugar substitute information.)

 

Crust:

2  3/4 whole wheat flour                     1/3 cup natural peanut butter (smooth or crunchy)

1 1/4 cups sucanat                             1 tsp. natural vanilla extract

1 egg                                                    1 tsp. sea salt

1 cup butter (2 sticks), softened

 

Topping:

1 cup (6 oz.) semisweet or dark chocolate chips, melted

1/2 cup natural peanut butter (smooth or crunchy)

1 1/2 cups crushed cornflakes (Crush with rolling pin while in waxed paper bag)

 

In a mixing bowl, combine the first 8 ingredients and mix well (batter will be thick).  Press into an ungreased 10 x 15 inch pan.  Bake at 350 degrees for 15-20 minutes.  Meanwhile, combine chocolate chips and peanut butter in a bowl.  Stir in cornflakes.  Carefully spread on top.  As the crust heats up the topping, it is easier to spread evenly.  Cool and cut into bars.  Yum!

 

 

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