Quote from Forum Archives on May 13, 2001, 12:22 am

Posted by: phoenix626 <phoenix626@...>

Hi, I can relate as this still comes up in our household occasionally(I've
been wearing dresses only for about a year) My husband liked that I looked
"sexy" in jeans, I pointed out that if he thought I did other men may too
and did he want other men to look at me or think of me in that way? We
agreed that I would wear pants when I am doing more of the heavy
choring(animal stuff) lately I've been doing even that in dresses(its to
much effort to get changed... lol) nothing has been said in a while. I
would explain how you feel, point out how other men may look at you and come
to some sort of mutually agreeable arrangement. Just my thoughts... some of
the others may have more wisdomly advice.
Tara
-----Original Message-----
From: Deblfine@aol.com <Deblfine@aol.com>
To: HomesteadHeaven@welovegod.org <HomesteadHeaven@welovegod.org>
Date: Saturday, May 12, 2001 6:55 PM
Subject: [HomeSteadHeaven] dresses again

Hi Ladies-

Can we bring up this topic again? I have been wearing dresses full time for
over 3 months now. And then today dh says he wants me to wear jeans! He
thinks I look nicer in jeans, and he thought the dresses were just a
"phase",
that's why he never said anything sooner.

Not sure how to approach this. My dh is a wonderful man who is not as
convicted as I am on most things. He has a good heart, but just isn't where
I'm at on alot of issues.

So-- give me your thoughts on this. Do I fully submit and get back into
pants? Do I do a little of both? Do I sit down and talk with him and show
him
why I believe this?
We talked a long time today about modesty, and feminity etc, but he feels
that I can be modest in jeans and still be feminine, (and sexy too, he
added.
Which is funny that he even cares what I wear when I'm so overweightt--
there's nothing sexy about me in a dress or pants!)

Eager for your ideas and thoughts on this-
Debbie in TN

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