Some of the most common misuses of our tongues are: 1. Gossiping about fellow members. 2. Criticizing a sermon. 3. Running the pastor down. 4. Passing along matters which should be kept confidential. 5. Constantly questioning the leadership’s methods and motives. 6. Setting two members against each other. 7. Talking about dirty and immoral issues. 8. Making subtle, negative references about others. 9. Talking of matters about which we are uninformed. 10. Making disparaging remarks to others. 11. Bragging about our accomplishments and acts of service. 12. Encouraging church disharmony.