How to Turn a Disagreement into a Feud: 1. Be sure to develop and maintain a healthy fear of conflict, letting your own feelings build up so you are in an explosive frame of mind. 2. If you must state your concerns, be as vague and general as possible. Then the other person cannot do anything practical to change the situation. 3. Assume you know all the facts and you are totally right. The use of a clinching Bible verse is helpful. Speak prophetically for truth and justice; do most of the talking. 4. With a touch of defiance, announce your willingness to talk with anyone who wishes to discuss the problem with you. But do not take steps to initiate such conversation. 5. Latch tenaciously onto whatever evidence you can find that shows the other person is merely jealous of you. 6. Judge the motivation of the other party on any previous experience that showed failure or unkindness. Keep track of any angry words. 7. If the discussion should, alas, become serious, view the issue as a win/lose struggle. Avoid possible solutions and go for total victory and unconditional surrender. Don't get too many options on the table. 8. Pass the buck! If you are about to get cornered into a solution, indicate you are without power to settle; you need your partner, spouse, bank, whatever (Ron Kraybill).
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#1 · November 14, 2015, 10:34 pm

Posted by: savedsoulseternity <savedsoulseternity@...>

Heather I am doing great. I am listening to Gaither gospel hour. Watched the Paris tragedy. Praying. I am getting very tired. I will go to sleep and then wake up at 11 pm or 12. I will then pray and do Bible study. I go to Sunday school have taught twice now. Adult class. Have Bible study after church with a friend looks like our next meeting we will have three more. I have been pretty busy. So good to hear from you. No snow here yet.

On Nov 14, 2015 7:54 AM, "[email protected]" <[email protected]> wrote:

First snow today ladies! But 60's are on the

way in 24 hours. How is everyone?  I had found

a site that had free webinars all week on

homesteading.  Out of 15, I only found two

interesting. They were on herbs and medical

use.   I know we have had posts before on the

list but remind me who on here does this?  I

miss your conversations terribly.  Thinking of

the storms that pushed through the state's and

wondered how you all are doing.

Heather

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