Husband’s Checklist: 1. Do I know what is going on in my home from day to day? 2. Am I in control of what is happening; indeed, am I leading the family in the direction in which it is moving? 3. Can I control my children and my wife? 4. Do I truly love my wife (by giving of myself to her), as I should? How am I demonstrating this? 5. Do I assume responsible leadership over my family?