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12/12/09 Needs of Women, Blessing Little Ones, Recipes, Games, God, V isualizing, Gems

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HEART TO HEART NEWSLETTER
ENCOURAGEMENT TO WOMEN

Compiled especially for you with love by Lois Breneman


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12/10/09 Needs of Women, Blessing Little Ones, Recipes, Games, God, Visualizing, Gems

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The purpose of the Heart to Heart Newsletter is to encourage women and build biblical values into daily living through practical creative ideas for the Christian family regarding marriage, children, homemaking, and much more.  Receive this free bimonthly newsletter by sending your name, city, state, e-mail address, and name of your referral person to Lois at jhbreneman@juno.comNew subscribers will receive a "Start-Up Kit." 






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IN THIS ISSUE:

ONLY ONE DECEMBER NEWSLETTER 
CHANGE OF E-MAIL ADDRESS
30 DAYS OF THANKFULNESS AND SERVICE

MEETING THE NEEDS OF OTHER WOMEN
16 WAYS TO BLESS, ENCOURAGE AND INFLUENCE LITTLE ONES

DISCIPLINE OR DESTRESS?
HAM BISCUITS

FRESH CRANBERRY-PINEAPPLE RELISH

CHRISTMAS PARTY GAMES 
GOD IS NOT ONLY GOOD ..... HE IS AWESOME!
PROFOUND QUOTES
WHAT CAN YOU DO WITH BROKEN CRAYONS?
VISUALIZING OUR ANSWERS TO PRAYER - WITH HOPE

PRECIOUS GEMS FROM LITTLE ONES

 

 

ONLY ONE DECEMBER NEWSLETTER
This will be the first month in eleven years that only one newsletter is being sent.  Ever since December 3, I've been trying to send this newsletter through the server I use, but for some unknown reason, it will not go.  I hope it will go today after reworking it once again.  Since you already received 8 Christmas newsletters earlier and are so busy this month, I'm sure you won't miss it. 


CHANGE OF E-MAIL ADDRESS
Ladies, if you change your e-mail address at the end of the year (or anytime), IF you want to continue receiving Heart to Heart, I need you to let me know by sending the following information:
(1) Your name, (2) Your old e-mail address, (3) Your new e-mail address.


More subscribers are dropped because of neglecting to do this than for any other reason.


30 DAYS OF THANKFULNESS AND SERVICE

Debbie Tuott in Minnesota replied to the last newsletter, concerning the article by Barbara Rainey.  It doesn't need to be Thanksgiving time to help others though, so hopefully many of us will reach out to others in need of a helping hand, if at all possible.  Debbie wrote:

 

I love that article on grumbling and gratitude!!  It speaks to me a lot since it is something I have been working on in my children. We do a specific prayer, praising the Lord for something but after Monday, they seem to forget.

 

For the month of November we did 30 days of Thankfulness and Service. We have picked something every day we are thankful for and trying to serve someone everyday. We have volunteered at the local food shelf 2 times, worked on 400 baskets of blessings for Thanksgiving, picked 2 rows of potatoes for farmer friends of ours who had just prayed for help when we came along, helped friends move (no one else stepped up to help them), raked leaves for a widow and a widower.  Sometimes they served mom and dad or someone else in the family who needed help.  


 

MEETING THE NEEDS OF OTHER WOMEN
by Lois Breneman, © 2008, Heart to Heart Newsletter, [email protected] 


A "Heart to Heart" subscriber wrote and asked for ideas on how she could help meet the needs of women in both her business and through the women's ministry in her church. 

 

I would suggest first of all that if you are quite sure a woman is not a Christian, simply be her friend to her in some of the ways mentioned below.  Don't try to push your faith on her, but ask the Holy Spirit to infuse the fruit of His Spirit into your life and help you live out the Christian life before her with love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness and self control, as Galatians 5:22 and 23 instructs.

 

Ask the Lord to shine through your life to others around you each day.

Ask the Lord to open doors for you to encourage other women and be a witness for Him.

Smile and show kindness.

Never gossip or share about others in a negative way.

Be a genuine/real friend to her.

Be yourself.  Don't pretend to be someone you are not.

Don't think of yourself more highly that you ought to think.

Show an interest in her - ask her to tell you about her own interests.

Put her interests above your own.

Invite her to your home for breakfast or lunch.

Invite several women into your home at a time - possibly ask each one to bring a dish to share.

Invite her and her family to join your family for dinner.

Offer to babysit one evening, if you see she is lacking time alone with her husband.

Ask her if there is anything she would like you to pray about for her or her family.  Then do so.

Remember her on her birthday with a card and maybe a small gift.

Ask her advice pertaining to a talent she has or ask if she would teach you in that area.

Offer to help her in the area of your expertise - maybe knitting, card making or sewing.

 

Rather than jamming your "religion" down an unbeliever's throat, live the Christian life before her, waiting for the right moment to share your faith with her, little by little.  Then when the opportunity arises you could tell her how the Lord has changed your life or helped you through a particular situation.  When you do share, bathe each word in prayer and follow the Lord's prompting, rather than your own.

 

16 WAYS TO BLESS, ENCOURAGE AND INFLUENCE LITTLE ONES
by Lois Breneman, © 2009, Heart to Heart Newsletter, [email protected]  


Sometimes we get way too busy and the little ones in our life may get overlooked, and not feel as loved as they should.  Parents, grandparents, big sisters and brothers, aunts, uncles, cousins, teachers, friends, and babysitters can bless, encourage and influence little ones in these ways!  Some of these ideas can even be used to encourage teens and spouses!


Pray aloud for your little ones in their presence, thanking the Lord for their good qualities as you name them.

If you offend a little one, tell him you're sorry and ask for his forgiveness.  Then thank him for forgiving all the mistakes you make.

When your little one does well, praise him, saying something like, "What a remarkable job!" or "Fantastic job!"

Bless your little one by placing your hand on her head and praying for her aloud, mentioning her name and thanking God for such a wonderful child He had placed in your life. End the blessing by kissing her on the head.

When your little one asks you endless questions, say, "You ask the best questions!  Being curious means you are smart and I'm so glad you're not afraid to ask!  That's how you learn!"

When your child makes a wise choice, praise her with a comment like, "That's really using your brain to its fullest!" or "What a wise choice you made just now!"  Then voice to her what her wise choice was.

Leave a note for your little one on the bathroom mirror such as, "Good morning, Daniel!  What a nice smile you have!"

Every time your child tells someone about Jesus, tell him, "Oh my goodness!  What beautiful feet you have!"  Then tell him what Isaiah 52:7 says.  "How beautiful are the feet of them who bring good news!"

Write your little one's cute quotes and words of wisdom in a special book, and read them aloud in the car on family trips.

As you're tucking your little one into bed, pretend your "mailing" her in a package to Grandma, folding, stuffing, sealing and stamping her into bed for special delivery, saying, "You know how Grandma would love opening her mailbox and seeing you!"

Sometime when you see your little one, say, "How did I get such a great kid?  What a special gift God gave to me!"

Tell your little one that she must be your reward for eating all your broccoli and green beans when you were a child!

Record your little one's laughter, then play it back and tell him, "Your laughter is such beautiful music to my ears!"

Make a "Kid Sandwich" with two people and the little one in between.  Then squeeze out all the pickles and mayonnaise!

Color in a coloring book with your little one and let him ask questions and just talk while you listen.

Hug your little one and tell her, "I can't imagine my life without you in it!"


DISCIPLINE OR DESTRESS?

Noticing more screaming, tantrums, resistance, nightmares, bedwetting, defiance, whining and cantankerousness in kids this time of year? 
 


When Laura was in a Christmas play and we were running out the door to practices, constantly rehearsing her lines, cramming in homework and quick meals, she finally broke down in tears. "I'm not going!" she demanded one afternoon. The hectic pace and high expectations finally wore her down. Boy, did I feel insensitive and guilty.

 

Kids are perceptive. They pick up on stress in our lives and also react to their disrupted routines. If you find your kids are acting out more - during the day and overnight - perhaps they're stressed with the expectations and busyness. Even anticipation, of Christmas Day, is a stressor!

 

If you think you're going to "lose it" at times, don't you think kids feel the same? And most kids - especially those wee ones - are helpless about their schedules since adults set the pace.

 

Rather than increasing discipline, setting more rules and limitations, or sending kids to time-out, try calming the environment. Turn down the lights, turn OFF the TV, PlayStation and other electronics. Enjoy some quiet in your home. Allow children to lie on the bed and think. Allow down time for relaxation.

 

This week, be a student of your children; watch and learn from them. If you see they're reacting to stressed and harried schedules, DeStress, slow down! You'll see an improvement in their behavior as well as yours. Nothing - not plays, family expectations, relatives, games, or church - is worth your kids' mental health and your parent/child relationship.

(c)Copyright, 2009, Brenda Nixon.  The Birth to Five Book: Confident Childrearing Right from the Start is available at bookstores and online at Amazon.  Follow my work and life in 140 characters at http://www.twitter.com/BrendaNixon.  For Brenda's Discipline Tip, each week:  [email protected] 


 


HAM BISCUITS
A favorite recipe for Christmas gatherings! Thanks to Lynne McDaniel in Virginia for sending it!
This makes 24 ham "biscuits."

2 pkgs. dinner rolls
1 lb. ham slices
1/2 lb Swiss cheese (I get the packages that have 12 - 16 slices)
2 sticks butter
3 tsp. dry mustard
2 tsp. poppy seeds
4 tsp. onion flakes
3 tsp. Worchestershire sauce

Layer slices of ham and cheese inside rolls. Melt butter in saucepan, add mustard, poppy seed, onion flakes and Worchestershire sauce. Heat until it begins to boil. Spoon over top of rolls and bake at 350 degrees for 15 minutes.
 

FRESH CRANBERRY-PINEAPPLE RELISH

This is a recipe I made up last year, using no sugar, and no one realized it had no sugar unless told. Stevia is a natural sweetener (not artificial) and has no calories.  This was a favorite recipe again this year!  A keeper!

2 bags fresh cranberries, chopped in food processor
2 cans crushed pineapple in it's own juice, drained partially
1 large jar natural applesauce (I use Kroger brand)

stevia, powder or liquid (I use Nu-Stevia powder and add enough to sweeten it to taste)  






 
 





 

CHRISTMAS PARTY GAMES

by Julie Druck in Pennsylvania, Editor of a free newsletter, "A Heart for Home," shares this tip.  To subscribe, send a blank e-mail to:  [email protected] 

* Memory Game – Place 15 small, Christmas-related games on a tray such as an ornament, candy cane, candle, tree light, etc.  Give players a few minutes to look at the things and then cover or remove the tray.  The players are given a pencil and paper and must try from memory to list as many of the items as they can. 

 

* Christmas Carol Scramble – Scramble the titles of 20 different Christmas songs by mixing up the letters in each individual title; for example, “EW ETREH GSKNI” is “We Three Kings.”  Copy enough for each player and give them a few minutes to try to unscramble as many songs as they can.  The one with the most correct is the winner.

 

* Wrapping Presents – This is a fun game to watch and a frustrating one to play!  Pair each player up with a partner.  Place in front of each pair a box, a large sheet of wrapping paper, a scissors, a roll of tape and a roll of ribbon.  Each partner must keep one hand behind their backs at all times and the pair must work together to wrap the box with the sheet of wrapping paper using the tape and then tie the ribbon around the box into a bow.  The first team to accomplish the feat satisfactorily (according to the judge) is the winner!

 

* Unwrapping Presents I – Have all players sit around a table or in a circle on the floor.  Hand someone a die and each person in turn must try to roll a “5.”  If they do, they get to unwrap ONE layer of paper from a package that has been wrapped in multiple layers ahead of time.  If they roll other than a “5,” the die gets passed to the next person to try.  The die goes round and round the table until someone removes the last layer – that person gets to keep the gift.

 

* Unwrapping Presents II – Wrap several gifts in various amounts of layers of wrapping paper.  Have players sit in a circle.  Handing the gifts to various people around the circle, start some Christmas music playing.  As it plays, guests keeping passing around the gifts.  When the music stops, each person holding a gift should unwrap ONE layer.  The music begins again and the gifts are passed.  Keep stopping and starting music and passing and unwrapping gifts.  When someone gets to the last layer of a gift, they get to keep it.  The music and passing continues until all gifts have been wrapped.

 

* Christmas Scavenger Hunt – My mother researched and prepared this game last year for us to play on Christmas Day.  The hunt involved answering questions that could be found out by asking various guests, by inspecting my sister’s Christmas decorations (where we held our celebration), and by walking around the outside of my sister’s home.  The questions included things like:  How many birds can you find in Jenna’s Christmas decorations?; Find someone who is wearing Christmas jewelry.; Find someone who has played Santa Claus in the past; How many Christmas figurines and wreaths does Jenna have outside?  The possibilities for these fun questions are nearly endless!  My mother gave us a time limit and then we met together in the living room to see who came up with the most correct answers.  Enjoy!

 

 

GOD  IS  NOT  ONLY GOOD ..... HE IS AWESOME! 
Author unknown

This is almost overwhelming when you think about it.  You must read to the end: 
  
Moses and the people were in the desert, but what was he going to do with them? They had to be fed, and feeding 2 or 3 million people requires a lot of food.  
 
According to the Quartermaster General in the Army, it is reported that  Moses would have to have had 1500 tons of food each day. Do you know that to bring that much food each day, two freight trains, each at least a mile long, would be required!
 
Besides you must remember, they were out in the desert, so they would have to have firewood to use in cooking the food. This would take 4000 tons of wood and a few more freight trains, each a mile long, just for one day.  And just think, they were forty years in transit.
 
And Oh yes!  They would have to have water. If they only had enough to drink and wash a few dishes, it would take 11,000,000 gallons each day and a freight train with tank cars, 1800 miles long, just to bring water!
 
And then another thing!
 
They had to get across the Red Sea at night. Now, if they went on a narrow path, double file, the line would be 800 miles long and would require 35 days and nights to get through. So there had to be a space in the Red Sea, 3 miles wide so that they could walk 5000 abreast to get over in one night.
 
But then, there is another problem!  Each time they camped at the end of the day, a campground two-thirds the size of the state of Rhode Island was required, or a total of 750 square miles long.  Think of it! This much space for camping! 
 
Do you think Moses figured all this out before he left Egypt? I think not! 
You see, Moses believed in God. God took care of these things for him.
 
Now do you think God has any problem taking care of all your needs?

 

 

PROFOUND QUOTES

 

"God's purpose is to enable me to see that He can walk on the storms of my life right now. If we have a further goal in mind, we are not paying enough attention to the present time. However, if we realize that moment by moment obedience is the goal, then each moment as it comes is precious." - Oswald Chambers

 

Imagine the sparrows and the blackbirds and thrushes worrying about their feathers! ~ Oswald Chambers ~ (from Studies in the Sermon on the Mount)

 


WHAT CAN WE DO WITH BROKEN CRAYONS?
by Lois Breneman, © 2009, Heart to Heart Newsletter, [email protected]  


A subscriber asked me this question, so I thought maybe some other moms could have been wondering the same thing!


When our children were small, we took the paper off the tiny pieces of crayon and filled small glass cylinders with them, put them on a cookie sheet lined with wax paper, and melted them in the oven.  We froze them and they popped right out.  The kids used them as fat crayons of all colors to color pictures.  I really don't know where those glass cylinders came from, but I suppose even a custard cup could be used to make a really fat crayon.


Another thing we did with broken crayons was to shave them onto wax paper in a design, cover with another piece of wax paper and iron them.  They made pretty designs!  I'd advise using an old towel on the ironing board, and a press cloth on top of the art work to save the ironing board cover and the iron plate from a colorful mess.  The small crayons could also be hammered between plastic wrap.  All shades of blues would be pretty, with touches of yellow and orange, etc.


We've also used small pieces of crayons to color paraffin when making cake candles or dipping pine cones.


Small crayons can still be used for coloring, using the sides rather than the tips. 



VISUALIZING OUR ANSWERS TO PRAYER - WITH HOPE

by Lois Breneman, © 2007, Revised 2009, Heart to Heart Newsletter, [email protected] 

 

One September all of our family gathered for two family reunions in Pennsylvania.  At that time our daughter and son-in-law were still hoping for at least one other child, after a fourteen week pregnancy more than a year earlier had ended in a miscarriage.  Our older son and his wife had just been married a few weeks earlier, after they had both finally found the one the Lord meant to be their one and only life's partner, but the biological clocks were ticking, so we were praying for the Lord to bless both of these families with babies. 

 

At one of those reunions our nephew's baby daughter, Hope Elizabeth Breneman, was being passed around, as we all enjoyed holding that sweet new baby.  After we arrived home, my husband and I viewed all the pictures taken that weekend, and decided to place the two pictures of both our daughter, Joy, and daughter-in-law, Rachael, side by side in one frame.  They were each holding Hope Elizabeth - each one with a big smile on her face!  That double picture hung in our bedroom ever since that September, as a reminder to pray often that Joy and Rachael's arms would soon be filled - each with their very own baby.  We were hoping and praying, and that picture was a good reminder to pray often!

 

One year later we knew that God is so good - no matter what!  The month following that reunion, Joy was pregnant and precious Ryan Elizabeth was born the following July!   A small picture of her is now in Joy's arms in that double picture!  But that's not all God did!  Jeff and Rachael had a precious baby boy, Daniel, the following March!  Our hearts were full of praise and joy to the Lord!  He had turned those hopes and prayers into reality, after a very long period in the waiting room.  So never give up!  God is working, even when you don't see even a glimmer of hope.  Be faithful in praying anyway.

 

The praying and hoping continues for even more precious grandchildren, provided by the Lord - in His time.  That picture is still hanging in our bedroom as a reminder of what God has done and what He will continue to do!


 

PRECIOUS GEMS FROM LITTLE ONES

At the Thanksgiving table Seth, age 4, shared that he is thankful for airplanes and the letter "J."  Then he sang Feliz Navidad, only he called it "Feliz MommyDad" !!!  Afterwhich 3 year old Lily Joy announced like a swooning teenage girl, "Oh Wow!  That was Awesome!" ~  Janis Williamson in Tennessee (Grammee)   Aimee Joy Weimer, Lily Joy's mom, and Scott Williamson, Seth's dad, also gave their permission for this priceless quote to be included in Heart to Heart.

Dolly Butterbaugh in Virginia has two gems from her great-granddaughter, Jaiden, who won't be 3 until January, but she comes up with some real zingers.  Cris Jones is the grandma of Jaiden and Carianne is her Mommy.

Jaiden: Mommy, I want cereal for breakfast.
Carianne (Mommy): Sorry, Jaiden, we ran out of milk so we have nothing to put on it.
Jaiden: I think orange juice will do the trick.

They went outside and there was no snow left on the ground.
Jaiden: Aw, Mommy, is Christmas over? 🙁
Carianne: No, Christmas isn't over; the snow is just gone. It might come back again before Christmas.
Jaiden: Look, Mommy! The trees are dancing because Christmas isn't over!


Daniel, 20 months, is very concerned about the beans that are soaking in the kitchen.  I was letting him stir the pot earlier.  Now he keeps walking around saying, "Beans. Go! Beans. Go!"  He's grabbing my hand and trying to get me to go to the kitchen. ~ Rachael Breneman in Ohio (Sweet grandson of Lois)
 


A Sunday school teacher asked little Susie, "Who's your favorite person in the Bible?"
Susie said, "King Solomon."
"Can you tell us why?"
"Because he was so nice to ladies and to animals."
"What do you mean?"
"He had six hundred wives and three hundred porcupines." ~ Thanks to Annamarie Kresge in Virginia for sending this one!


 





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                                                                                                                       Lois             











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